Thursday, March 26, 2015

Handing Negative Comments on Your Images Gracefully

Last weekend two photographer that I follow and are inspired by had nasty posts from people on photographs on their Facebook Pages.  Both of these amazing talented woman do their very best to help photographers grow.  They never stop remembering what it is like to be a new photographer.  As each struggled with their own reactions to this situation I thought what a good topic for our Friday Blog post. 

Clearly at some point in your career you are going to run into negative people who either don’t get your artistic statement or they aren't going to get your vision. 

How do you handle it gracefully so that you can pull any real feedback you can use but push away anything that has no merit?  In class you will get reviews that you don’t like be it from teachers or students.  It will make you want to scream your head off if you worked really hard at the assignment but ultimately you learn and grow from those critiques.   

Once you leave school  it is good to know you will at times still face unwarranted negative feedback.  How you handle it can cause you to lose clients or it can make you into a champion where your followers relate to your struggles as an artist.  Here are two things to keep in mind when you want to lash out and make a comment you might regret later

                                                          Understand where the comments are coming from


Is this another photographer who is jealous of your success?  Did you critique their work and they didn’t take it well.  Try to look at the person who is commenting.  Is this someone who is trying to provide you feedback so you can grow?  If you respect the person try to see the comments and their view point before you respond.

                         Did you post an image that you could see could cause a negative comment?

Your image isn't wrong.  I know that sometimes I still post an image that I can see is going to cause a discussion about my intent.  If you wrap a baby in a scarf that looks like a flag, it is going to cause someone to comment and a huge discussion or argument will probably happen. Does it make that image less powerful especially if the father is a serviceman? No, but it does leave you open to be critiqued.  In a situation where I know an image is going to cause comment I am the first to comment on the situation behind it.  In the case of one of these  two photographers posted an image of five 8 year olds who dressed themselves. The image is amazing and endearing.  She felt there was nothing in this image to cause an argument or mean comments.  Some of the clothing choices the girls made were more risqué.  It cause the nasty discussion on her image.  She finally removed the image and was upset but came back with a strong inspiring blog post that I will share a link to.

Your vision is your vision and it isn't right or wrong. You don’t have to defend your image if you don’t want to. However it will help people who are having a hard time understanding your image if you take the time to stay calm and explain what you see when you look at the image.  We all have our own frame of reference and sometimes we have blinders on until someone helps us to see art in a different way.

As I mentioned one of the photographers, Meg Bitton took her anger and wrote a truly amazing and uplifting Blog post about where inspiration comes from.  She told her followers that she removed her image and wouldn't spend any more time deleting insensitive comments about the image. She wasn't just concerned about her image but the fact the young girls might see the negative comments about their innocent picture.  She then posted the blog post.

There may never be a perfect way to handle a situation where someone attacks your image but I hope that I have enough grace to handle it like Meg.  Please read her blog when you have time. It will make you remember why you became a photographer in the first place and understand this is a gracious way to handle an attack on your art!


Happy Reading! I look forward to your input on this topic.
Jessi

Work Cited

Bitton, Meg. "Thoughts." Meg Bitton -. N.p., 23 Mar. 2015. Web. 26 Mar. 2015. <http://www.megbitton.com/thoughts/>.

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